In today’s post, I want to share an incredibly inspiring story about a mother’s unwavering determination, resilience, and the power of mindset. Miriam, a mindset coach, faced one of the most challenging journeys a parent can endure: her daughter Amaya was born at just 27 weeks, weighing a mere 680 grams (1 pound 8 ounces). This tiny miracle faced numerous health challenges, and Miriam’s story is a testament to the strength and love of a mother who refused to accept the dire predictions of doctors and the harsh reality of her circumstances.t goes here
The Early Days: A Fight for Survival
Amaya’s early arrival was due to a severe condition called HELLP syndrome, a life-threatening pregnancy complication characterized by hemolysis, elevated liver enzymes, and low platelet count. Miriam experienced excruciating pain and severe symptoms, leading to an emergency C-section. Amaya was so small that she fit into the palm of a hand, and her brain was significantly underdeveloped. Doctors were uncertain about her survival and future development, leaving Miriam in a state of shock and devastation.
Despite the overwhelming odds, Miriam’s love for her daughter fueled her determination. The initial months were filled with constant fear and uncertainty. Amaya spent six months in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU), battling numerous health issues. At one point, she was given the wrong medication, which caused severe burns in her mouth and esophagus, further complicating her ability to eat.
A Turning Point: The Power of Mindset
During this difficult time, Miriam faced the reality of becoming a special needs mom. However, she refused to accept this as her permanent reality. Drawing on her expertise as a mindset coach, Miriam decided to use her knowledge to change the course of her daughter’s life. She believed in the power of positive affirmations and subconscious programming, especially in young children whose minds are highly impressionable.
Miriam began to speak positive affirmations to Amaya daily. She told her how well she was eating, even when she wasn’t. This wasn’t about lying but about programming a positive outcome. She knew that what she consistently told Amaya would eventually become her reality. Miriam’s relentless positivity and belief in her daughter’s potential began to manifest in small but significant improvements.
Overcoming Challenges: From Feeding Tubes to Eating Independently
At four months old, Amaya had to undergo surgery for a feeding tube, a decision that was heart-wrenching for Miriam. However, this intervention was necessary for her survival. Once stabilized, the real work began. Miriam worked tirelessly with six different therapists, covering speech, physical, and occupational therapy. Each day was a battle, but Miriam’s determination never wavered.
Miriam’s approach was not just about therapy but about creating an environment of positivity and belief. She told Amaya every day that she was eating well and getting better. Slowly but surely, Amaya began to accept food. It started with tiny amounts of strong-flavored foods like coffee creamer and peppermint ice cream, which eventually led to more substantial meals.
“Amaya was my tiny warrior. Every day, I would tell her, ‘You are strong, Amaya. You are a fighter. You are going to overcome anything.’”
Miriam Villegas
A Miracle Unfolds: Amaya’s Transformation
After countless hours of therapy and unwavering support from her mother, Amaya began to eat more regularly. Her development, which had been a significant concern, began to catch up. Three weeks before her fourth birthday, Amaya had her feeding tube removed. She transitioned into a normal school environment, developmentally on par with her peers, and continues to thrive.
Miriam attributes this incredible transformation to her belief in the power of mindset and positive programming. She emphasizes that while the journey was long and challenging, the results were worth every moment of struggle. Amaya’s story is a powerful example of how a mother’s love, combined with the right mindset, can overcome seemingly insurmountable odds.
The Takeaway: Believe in the Impossible
Miriam’s story is more than just a personal victory; it’s a message to all parents facing similar challenges. It’s a testament to the power of belief, the importance of a positive mindset, and the incredible strength found in a mother’s love. Miriam teaches us that no matter how dire the situation may seem, we have the power to change our reality by focusing on the outcome we desire.
Miriam’s journey with Amaya reminds us that doctors and experts do not have the final say in our lives. While their opinions and treatments are crucial, the power of a positive mindset and unwavering belief can create miracles. This story is an inspiration to all, showing that with determination, positivity, and love, we can overcome the toughest challenges and create the life we envision for ourselves and our loved ones.
In conclusion, Miriam’s story is a testament to the transformative power of a mother’s love, positive reinforcement, and unwavering belief. It serves as a beacon of hope for families facing similar challenges. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Seek support from your loved ones and within your community. Many hospitals have social workers who can connect you with support groups and resources. Additionally, online forums and communities connect parents with similar experiences, offering invaluable comfort and shared wisdom. With love, determination, and the right support system, you can create a positive future for your child.
If you are facing similar situations these resources might be helpful:
March of Dimes: The March of Dimes is a leading organization dedicated to improving the health of babies. They offer a wealth of information and support for parents of premature babies, including the NICU Family Support® program: https://www.marchofdimes.org
National Preemie Foundation: This organization provides resources and support for families with premature babies: https://www.marchofdimes.org/prematurity-awareness-month
Shades of Pink Foundation: This foundation offers support specifically for families of micro-preemies (babies born before 26 weeks): https://www.shadesofpinkfoundation.org
Note: HELLP syndrome
Also called: hemolysis, elevated liver enzymes, low platelet count. A serious complication of high blood pressure during pregnancy. Hemolysis, elevated liver enzymes, and low platelet count (HELLP) syndrome usually develops before the 37th week of pregnancy but can occur shortly after delivery. Many women are diagnosed with preeclampsia beforehand. Symptoms include nausea, headache, belly pain, and swelling. Treatment usually requires delivery of the baby, even if the baby is premature.
Source: Preeclampsia Foundation https://www.preeclampsia.org/hellp-syndrome
Video Chapters
0:01 Intro
01:11 Miriam shares about the birth of her daughter at 27 weeks after being diagnosed with HELLP
04:26 Daughter’s brain wasn’t developed yet
05:48 They gave the preemie baby the wrong medicine
06:50 She had to move the baby to a different hospital to increase her chances of survival
07:15 Miriam suddenly saw herself as a Special Needs mom
08:15 Dealing everything mostly alone, away from her family
08:56 Miriam sets a strong mindset, I will become a Special Needs Mom
11:23 Manages to start feeding her daughter after many months of getting fed by tube only
11:23 Manages to start feeding her daughter after many months of getting fed by tube only
11:54 What others saw as lies, Miriam was programing her baby brain saying it was possible
18:15 The mindset power
21:00 What is the hardest decision you have had to make
22:37 What is the experience of a moment you would like to live over, and over again?
24:14 Final words
Connecting with Miriam Villegas
Hi! I’m Miriam Villegas,
A Success & Mindset Coach mentored and trained by Bob Proctor, one of the greatest teachers in the world on the topic of human potential and growth.
Have you ever wondered why some people work so hard while others make it look easy? It begins and ends with your mind, when you upgrade what you THINK your RESULTS will change.
I teach individuals and corporations how to elevate the quality of thoughts, expand their awareness, and give them an understanding of how to overcome roadblocks which enormously increases their performance and helps them reach greater levels of success.
- Website: https://yourmagneticmindset.com/
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- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/miriamvillegas111/
Connecting with the podcast host, Simone Bueno
Simone empowers women to amplify their voices through her Video Presence Educational content and training. Whether working with individuals or brands, Simone helps them make a lasting impact by ensuring their stories are heard and their messages resonate deeply with audiences.
Founder of Mom Is Not For Sale
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